Life is Ruff, and The Regrets We Experience Are Hell
Life and the decisions we make are ruff in itself. We all have been faced with making decisions we do it every day. Some are trivial and are without for the most part consequences. But then there are good decisions and there are bad ones. The good ones are easy to deal with because the only real regret is that I should have done it sooner, or just a little better.
The bad decisions are the worst to deal with and handle. For the most part I would say we know when we are going to make a bad decision that we will regret. How we know is simple. If you ever have found yourself trying to convince yourself that it is not a bad decision or, that you lie, deceive, or trick yourself into it, well then you can expect to have a bad experience.
Today the Kappell family had what I will only say as one of its so far, most regrettable days. You know one of those heart-sinking feelings. It is hard to accept curtain things at times, especially the ones you know you want to forget, but will never be able to. So you do the only thing you can, learn for this situation and move on. The hardest part I think is being able to see what you did wrong, so you can learn from it.
Moving on is very hard to do; most people arent ready to do what it takes to move on. I think what that is, is to be able to except the fate of the situation and realize there is nothing you can do to fix it. You can however make sure you never do it again, by admitting your mistake to yourself and know that what is done is done. Take a deep breath and move on! !
There is no sense in dwelling on your past, it will only pull you down and hurt and destroy you and the one around you. I am not saying forget what happened, just be able to move on when it is time.
